Hi again,I hope you are taking some of my advice from this blog ,because it is my experience that I am speaking from not a book.
Trust is a five letter word and with that said it is one of the easy thing that can break between so many people hearts, even the close ones that you love, it can break up a marriage; because one of the two adults tries to go out of the marriage and have an affair and now that person that had that affair is not thinking of the consquences that it was a selfish act( because I guset he/she thinks that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence if you catch my dift).
The person that had the affair is giving up a life time built of family,friends,inlaws and you make not get alone with them but they are still your in laws so just suck it up and live with that.......
Trust is the key to open the door of life and its abundance,it is a beautiful word,but you must first trust yourself before you can trust others, every word or thought begins in your mind!
Example If you set a goal to lose weight and you say that you want to accomplish it in a week that you will eat the foods necessary to help you lose weight, but in stead you begin to cheat by not following what you set out to do you are breaking that trusting relationship with yourself and no one else so you see it all begin with you
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Spice It Up 2
Dear Ladies and Gentles
I know that many of my friends are looking for the right guy or girl I am not an expert, I don't have big degrees to my name, but of my own experience I can truly say if you are look for a girl or guy you must start with CHANGE
Change is very hard, so hard that many people fail at this very thing in life that,that is so important to ones knowledge base
You first change the way you look at things and start learning how to put negative thoughts behind you
Negative thoughts would break your very ore, self esteem,
A another reason one may find hard to change because of the unknown which is FEAR of what others may think and say about ourselves but if you are going to change you must ,must say
You must search these two very important question ,otherwise you would just continue to be a robot like every one else , and you don't want to be a robot taking orders moving automatically day in and day out.
Your Mind is where CHANGE takes place you have a conscious mind and you have a sub-conscious mind
The conscious mind is where we have our five senses, this is where we have the ability to accept things or reject things
The subconscious mind now takes any others given to it from the conscious mind in absolute FAITH and acts upon those orders,but the orders whether it it negative or positive must be repeated ,repeated over,over again and through this repetition it will be interpreted into the subconscious mind
Hear is example of repetition - when you where a baby your parents ,friends, family members that you grew up with said the word NO to you over and over and then one day when you could pronounce the word you started to repeated what you heard, because it when into your subconscious mind automatically and you can train your mind like I said earlier to accept or reject anything but most people don't even realize that what they are accepting into their mind that is why I mention most of us are like robots day in and day out.
CHANGE is not hard when you truly think about it, but you must change your thoughts
We have the ability to gain control of our own destinies, but most of fail to do so, because we don't want to CHANGE
So if you are looking for that guy or girl
First answer the two question I ask ,write down your goals,stick it on the wall ,over your bed ,on the cabinets ,in your car, keep a log ,a journal ,and keep reading it night and morning and FOCUS YOUR MIND
Write what type of girl or guy
GOOD QUALITIES
He/She- tall,slim,big eyes, long hair,short,curly hair,blond hair,black hair,dark,light skin ,respectful,care about me ,spiritual,trustworthy ,calls,warm heart,understanding,do they have a business mind,eat healthy exercise,loves God,considerate etc
BAD QUALITIES
He/She- womanizer,call girl,physical abuse,not considerate of my feelings,don't love children ,jealous,don't love God,don't like to work ,smokes,drinks etc
Click Link To Learn More
http://tinyurl.com/spiceitup2
I know that many of my friends are looking for the right guy or girl I am not an expert, I don't have big degrees to my name, but of my own experience I can truly say if you are look for a girl or guy you must start with CHANGE
Change is very hard, so hard that many people fail at this very thing in life that,that is so important to ones knowledge base
You first change the way you look at things and start learning how to put negative thoughts behind you
Negative thoughts would break your very ore, self esteem,
A another reason one may find hard to change because of the unknown which is FEAR of what others may think and say about ourselves but if you are going to change you must ,must say
What do I want ?
You must search these two very important question ,otherwise you would just continue to be a robot like every one else , and you don't want to be a robot taking orders moving automatically day in and day out.
Your Mind is where CHANGE takes place you have a conscious mind and you have a sub-conscious mind
The conscious mind is where we have our five senses, this is where we have the ability to accept things or reject things
The subconscious mind now takes any others given to it from the conscious mind in absolute FAITH and acts upon those orders,but the orders whether it it negative or positive must be repeated ,repeated over,over again and through this repetition it will be interpreted into the subconscious mind
Hear is example of repetition - when you where a baby your parents ,friends, family members that you grew up with said the word NO to you over and over and then one day when you could pronounce the word you started to repeated what you heard, because it when into your subconscious mind automatically and you can train your mind like I said earlier to accept or reject anything but most people don't even realize that what they are accepting into their mind that is why I mention most of us are like robots day in and day out.
CHANGE is not hard when you truly think about it, but you must change your thoughts
We have the ability to gain control of our own destinies, but most of fail to do so, because we don't want to CHANGE
So if you are looking for that guy or girl
First answer the two question I ask ,write down your goals,stick it on the wall ,over your bed ,on the cabinets ,in your car, keep a log ,a journal ,and keep reading it night and morning and FOCUS YOUR MIND
Write what type of girl or guy
GOOD QUALITIES
He/She- tall,slim,big eyes, long hair,short,curly hair,blond hair,black hair,dark,light skin ,respectful,care about me ,spiritual,trustworthy ,calls,warm heart,understanding,do they have a business mind,eat healthy exercise,loves God,considerate etc
BAD QUALITIES
He/She- womanizer,call girl,physical abuse,not considerate of my feelings,don't love children ,jealous,don't love God,don't like to work ,smokes,drinks etc
Click Link To Learn More
http://tinyurl.com/spiceitup2
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)